We’re looking for real people.

Not experts. Just humans ready for real change. 

This is an open casting call for individuals who are ready to show up, grow, and explore what alignment in dating actually looks like.

We’re just the match. You’re the spark.


You’ll receive access to our signature True North Experience: A transformational journey valued at over $7,000.

This is for you if:

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    You’re craving something real.

    You’ve outgrown surface-level dating, swiping culture, and situationships. You want connection that’s honest, intentional, and rooted in who you are—not just how you present.

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    You’ve done some of the work—and you’re ready for what’s next.

    Therapy, growth, self-reflection... this isn’t your first step, but it might be your most aligned one. You’re open to personal growth and deeper self-awareness

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    You’re willing to be honest. Even if it’s uncomfortable.

    You don’t need to have it all figured out. You just need to show up open—to reflection, challenge, and being fully seen.

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    You’re more interested in alignment than attention.

    You’re not here to perform, posture, or prove. You care about building something that fits—something that lasts.

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    You’re open to documenting your story—with care.

    You’re comfortable capturing your journey through self-filmed moments. Nothing performative. Just honest storytelling, supported by us.

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    You understand that love is a practice, not just a moment.

    You’re ready to slow down, get clear, and grow into the kind of relationship that actually fits your life.

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We’re not looking for influencers.
We’re looking for people who are ready to grow—and open to be seen along the way.

This is not a reality show.
It’s a reflective, emotionally intelligent series designed to show what real relational growth looks like.

What’s Included:

  • ◜ start

    1:1 Alignment Sessions

    Three private sessions with SparksTonic guides, to explore your core values, clarify your relationship vision, and build a dating strategy rooted in who you are… not just who you're looking for.

  • ◝ stretch

    Personalized Clarity Report

    Your custom Tonic RX: a deep-dive into your emotional patterns, relationship needs, and aligned partner profile.

  • ◠ shift

    Coaching + Ongoing Support

    Two additional coaching sessions to reflect, refine, and integrate your dating experience in real time—plus check-ins to keep you grounded along the way.

  • ◞ return

    Match Compatibility Reviews

    If you develop a strong connection during the journey, our team can review that person’s alignment with you using our in-depth compatibility lens (up to 4 reviews).

  • ◟ rise

    Storytelling Support + Prompts

    You’ll receive weekly reflection prompts—video, voice, or written—to help you capture your journey.
    You’ll be self-documenting your process, with guidance from us on how to share your story authentically and with intention.

  • ○ integrate

    Your Story, Shared with Care

    Journeys will be shared on SparksTonic Arc’s platforms to offer a real, human lens into what modern alignment looks like.

This is a chance to slow down, get clear, and share what’s real.
Not filtered. Not staged. Just aligned.

 FAQs

For the Curious, the Cautious, & the Clear-Minded

  • It happens in two rounds.
    Round 1 is this initial application—your survey answers (and intro video) help us get a feel for your energy, story, and alignment.
    If we think there’s a potential fit, you’ll be invited to Round 2, a short Zoom chat with someone from our team to go deeper and answer any questions.

  • Yes and no. Not in the influencer sense. You’ll be invited to self-document your experience through casual videos, voice notes, or written reflections. No performance—just presence.

  • You’ll be self-filming on your phone—nothing fancy, just honest check-ins and reflections. If your story is shared, it’ll be shaped around what you choose to show. You’ll have full approval before anything is published.

  • Nope. This is a documented personal growth experience, not a performance or competition. You’re not here to “win” anything—you’re here to align with what’s real.

  • We’re keeping it small and intentional. Just a few people will be selected for this first storytelling cohort—we care more about alignment than numbers.

  • That’s okay—and honestly, that’s not entirely the goal. You’ll walk away with clarity, alignment, and 6 compatibility reviews you can use now or anytime in the future. Real connection doesn’t always follow a schedule—but your insight will. This isn’t about rushing into romance—it’s about getting clear, aligned, and grounded in what you’re actually looking for.

  • We’ll send you gentle weekly prompts—questions to reflect on, moments to capture, ideas to explore. You’ll record short videos or notes on your phone (think voice memos, casual selfies, or journaling clips). You’re in control of what you share.

  • We ask for a minimum of 2 self-recorded videos per week—quick check-ins, reflections, or moments from your journey. You’re welcome to record more if you feel called to.
    At the beginning, you’ll likely film a bit more as you go through onboarding and clarity sessions—that’s when the most shifts start happening.

  • Yes, it’s completely free. The “catch” is simply that you’re part of a story-led initiative— a raw, authentic Arc Docuseries. You’ll be supported, guided, and invited to share your experience as you go. But only in ways that feel aligned and respectful to you.

  • If you’re moving to Round 2, we’ll be in touch within 10 days of your application. If not, know that we’re truly grateful for your honesty and presence—you’re still part of the SparksTonic Arc orbit.